Adopt The Motto: It Doesn't Matter Who's

To Really 'live,' That Is To Find Life Reasonably Satisfying, You Must Have An Adequate And Realistic Self-image That You Can Life With. You Must Find Yourself Acceptable To 'you.'

Loneliness Is Caused By An Alienation From Life. It Is A Loneliness From Your Real Self.

Live In The Present. The Past Is Gone; The Future Is Unknown -- But The Present Is Real, And Your Opportunities Are Now. You Must See These Opportunities; They Must Be Real For You. The Catch Is That They Can't Seem Real If Your Mind Is Buried In Past Failures, If You Keep Reliving Old Mistakes, Old Guilts, Old Tragedies. Fight Your Way Above The Many Inevitable Traumatizations Of Your Ego, Escape Damnation By The Past, And Look To The Opportunities Of The Present. I Don't Mean Some Vague Moment In The Present -- Next Week Or Next Month, Perhaps. I Mean Today, This Minute.

Visualizing, Creative Mental Picturing, Is No More Difficult Than What You Do When You Remember Some Scene Out Of The Past, Or Worry About The Future. Acting Out New Action Patterns Is No More Difficult Than Deciding, Then Following Through On Tying Your Shoes In A New And Different Manner Each Morning, Instead Of Continuing To Tie Them In Your Old Habitual Way, Without Thought Or Decision.

Man Maintains His Balance, Poise, And Sense Of Security Only As He Is Moving Forward.