By Not Caring Too Much About What

The Freudian Tradition Will Never Completely Die Because It Has A Few Good Points. For Example, People Have Motives And Thoughts Of Which They Are Unaware. Most Of Cognitive Therapy Has Now Adopted A Similar Idea. On The Other Hand, The Relationship Part Of Psychoanalysis - Where You Must Have A Deep, Emotional Relationship With The Client - Will, I Think, Get Kicked In The Teeth One Of These Days.

So I'd Better Stop My Whining And Help Myself Cope Better With Even The Worst Adversities.

Acceptance Is Not Love. You Love A Person Because He Or She Has Lovable Traits, But You Accept Everybody Just Because They're Alive And Human.

Let's Suppose Somebody Abused You Sexually. You Still Had A Choice, Though Not A Good One, About What To Tell Yourself About The Abuse.

I Teach People To Be Flexible, Scientific And Logical In Their Thinking And Therefore To Be Less Prone To Brainwashing By The Therapist.