Children Aren't Fooled. They Know We Give

The Most Paradoxical Aspect Of Neurotic Shame Is That It Is The Core Motivator Of The Superachieved And The Underachieved, The Star And The Scapegoat, The Righteous And The Wretched, The Powerful And The Pathetic.

That's The Trouble With The Conventional Doctors. They Always Say, 'how Does It Work?' But Often There Isn't Any Neat Little Answer...something Simply Works...we Don't Really Know How It Works. We Say We Do. We Know One Or Two Things We Can See And Measure.

The Foundation For Our Self-image Is Grounded In The First Three Years Of Life. It Comes From Our Major Caretaker's Mirroring.

Virtue Is An Inner Strength. It Expands Your Nature.

Guilt Says I've Done Something Wrong; ... Shame Says There Is Something Wrong With Me. Guilt Says I've Made A Mistake; ... Shame Says I Am A Mistake. Guilt Says What Did Was Not Good; ... Shame Says I Am No Good.