Choosing Safety Is A Choice Of Life

Self-help Books For Those Who Believe 'you Can Have It All' Often Advise, 'follow Your Bliss And Money Will Follow.' With The Collapse Of The Stock Markets The Reality Of Trade-offs Is More Like, 'when You Follow Your Bliss, It's Money You'll Miss.'

Sex Role Training Becomes Divorce Training.

It Would Be Hard To Find A Single Example In History In Which A Group That Cast More Than 50 Percent Of The Vote Got Away With Calling Itself The Victim... Women Are The Only 'oppressed' Group To Share The Same Parents As The 'oppressor'; To Be Born Into The Middle Class And Upper Class As Frequently As The 'oppressor'; To Own More Of The Culture's Luxury Items Than The 'oppressor'.

When Women And Men Have Approximately Equal Life Expectancies, It Seems To Be Because Women Die Not Only In Childbirth (fewer Than Thought) But About Equal From Diseases; Poor Sanitation And Water; Inadequate Healthcare; And Diseases Of Malnutrition. In Industrialized Societies, Early Deaths Are Caused More By Diseases Triggered By Stress, Which Breaks Down The Immune System. It Is Since Stress Has Become The Key Factor That Men Have Died So Much Sooner Than Women.

In A Sense, Sexual Harassment Lawsuits Are Just The Latest Version Of The Female Selection Process Allowing Her To Select For Men Who Care Enough For Her To Put Their Career At Risk; Who Have Enough Finesse To Initiate Without Becoming A Jerk And Enough Guts To Initiate Despite A Potential Lawsuit. In The Past, Though, The Process Of His Overcoming Her Barriers Was Called 'courtship.' Now It Is Called Either 'courtship' Or 'sexual Harassment'.