Do You Realize That You Can't Play

When You Get Married, Your Loyalty, First And Foremost, Is To Your Spouse, And To The Family That You Create Together.

At This Very Moment, You May Be Saying To Yourself That You Have Any Number Of Admirable Qualities. You Are A Loyal Friend, A Caring Person, Someone Who Is Smart, Dependable, Fun To Be Around. That's Wonderful, And I'm Happy For You, But Let Me Ask You This: Are You Being Any Of Those Things To Yourself?

If I Was On The Air And Was Just Kind Of A Plain-vanilla Personality That Took The Safe Road And The Safe Way Trying To Please All Of The People All Of The Time, I'd Been Gone In Two Weeks.

Some People Prefer The Passenger Role, Because It Imposes No Real Pressure To Decide Or Stand Accountable For Their Life Results.

Success Means Different Things In Different Parts Of My Life, But Overall If I Have To Define Ultimately What Success Means - The Bottom Line - Then For Me It's If The Family Is Healthy And Happy.