Everybody Blames The Culture Without Taking Responsibility.

More And More Couples Are Having This Negotiation Or Discussion, But I'm Still Amazed At The Number Who Aren't And Where The Cultural Norm Sort Of Kicks In And They Just Assume That Mom's Got To Be The One Who Stays Home, Not Dad.

It Wasn't That I Ever Knew I'd Be At The Met For 20 Years, Or 30 Years, Or 40 Years, Or Anything Like That

And So, Little By Little, I Gradually Divested Myself Of Pretty Nearly All Of The Guest Conducting I Used To Do, Because I Was At The Same Time Working In The Places Like The Met, Where I Could Work In This Sort Of Depth.

Employee Fathers Need To Step Up To The Plate And Put Their Family Needs On The Table.

At My Age, You Are Naturally Inclined Towards Teaching.