First Tell Yourself What You Want To

Pain Or Pleasure? I Say Pleasure.

Not Things, But Opinions About Things, Trouble Men.

Be Free From Grief Not Through Insensibility Like The Irrational Animals, Nor Through Want Of Thought Like The Foolish, But Like A Man Of Virtue By Having Reason As The Consolation Of Grief.

Don't Seek To Have Events Happen As You Wish, But Wish Them To Happen As They Do Happen, And All Will Be Well With You.

What Disturbs People, These Are Not Things, But The Judgments Relating To Things