I Got Married Before I Found Myself.

Could I Be In A Better Place And Happier Than I Am Today? I Don't Think So.

I Think Our Society Is Fragmented. Messages Regarding Human Sexuality Have Always Been Mixed In America. We Are A Schizophrenic Nation. We Were Founded Initially By Puritans, Who Escaped Repression Only To Establish Their Own. Then The Founding Fathers Gave Us The Constitution To Separate Church And State. But The One Thing That Got Left Out Of All Those Laws Was Human Sexuality.

I Had A Stroke In 1985... I Called It A "stroke Of Luck." I Said, "life Is Like A Train Trip. You're Looking Out The Window And Everything Is Whipping Past And You're Not Really Seeing Anything, And You Need To Get Off The Train And Walk Around A Bit."

It Has Been Our Experience That Women Usually Prefer Thin, Undernourished, Flatchested Females, Dressed To The Teeth, As A Concept Of "feminine Beauty" -- And That Men Prefer Exactly The Opposite: Voluptuous, Well-rounded And Undressed. The Women's Idealization Of Woman Is Actually A Male Counterpart, Competing With Man In Society; Man's View Of Women Is Far More Truly Feminine.

The Difference Between Marilyn Monroe And The Early Pamela Anderson Is Not That Great.