I Was So Devastated By My Second

Trying To Understand The Fear I Had Of Truly Opening My Heart - First, You Have To Be Whole To Do That. The Fears, The Voices In My Mind Saying, "oh, You Don't Want To Do That, You Might Get Hurt, They Might Abandon You - "those Are Ghost Voices From My Mom And Dad.

We Need Women Friends, Women Who Challenge Us... I Have Chosen Not To Have Any More Plastic Surgery. Sally Field And I Have Kind Of Made A Pact About That. It's Really Hard, Especially If You're A Public Person. But I Want To Give A Face To Aging.

I've Been Accused Of Being Too Flexible, Too Willing To Mold Myself To Men, And That's Something I'm Constantly Working On.

When A Significant Other - A Spouse, A Parent Or Someone You're Close To - Is Dying, It Forces You To Think About Your Life, About What You Feel About Death. What I Realized From My Dad's Dying Was That I Wasn't Scared Of Dying. But I Was Terrified Of Regrets. I Was Terrified Of Getting To The End Of My Life With A Lot Of Why Didn't I's.

A Lot Of Things Affect Women Differently Than Men, And Women Get Left Out.