If I Work Toward An End, Meantime

No Matter What We Talk About, We Are Talking About Ourselves

Sometimes When I Generalize, I Am Saying, 'let's Pretend I Am God,' And Of Course The Other Person Argues That Point Endlessly. But I Notice That If The Other Person Takes A Stand For Himself And States His Thoughts As His Thoughts, I Pay More Attention To What He Is Saying And Look Deeper In Myself.

I'd Rather Be Happy Than Right.

For Communication To Have Meaning It Must Have A Life. It Must Transcend "you And Me" And Become "us." If I Truly Communicate, I See In You A Life That Is Not Me And Partake Of It. And You See And Partake Of Me. In A Small Way We Then Grow Out Of Our Old Selves And Become Something New. To Have This Kind Of Sharing I Cannot Enter Into A Conversation Clutching Myself. I Must Enter Into It With Loose Boundaries. I Must Give Myself To The Relationship, And Be Willing To Be What Grows Out Of It.

We Become What We Look At Most.