If You Call Me A New-age, Airy-fairy,

The Last Thing I Want To Be Known As Is 'the Girl Who Got Raped'. The Big Turn Around You Make In Your Head Is From Victim To Survivor.

Finding People In Your Life As Sounding Boards Who Can Be Neutral And Clear Is Worth Nurturing.

I'm Really Quite Happy To Say That In My Early 40s, I Wake Up Feeling Sexy, And I Can't Say I Felt That Way In My Late 20s.

So Then I Though I'd Make Some Plans, But Fire Thought She'd Really Rather Be Water Instead.

Tori's My Legal Name. My Niece And Nephews, They All Call Me Aunt Ellen, Because I Went By My Middle Name Years Ago, Before I Turned 18.