Kelsey Grammer Is One Of The Best

Everybody Is Different. I Can Think Of Three Black Men I've Dated And They Couldn't Be More Different From Each Other.

Like The Guy I Was Dating. White, Liberal, Educated. I Went To Meet His Family And I Think That They Probably Didn't Know They Had A Problem With It Until He Walked In With Me. And They Definitely Had Issues. Mom Had Issues With It. Could Not, Didn't Want To See Her Son. And I Don't Think She Had Anything Against Me. But It Was About Her Son Bringing Me Home. And I Felt That For The First Time. I Was Like, 'wow, That's Deep.' It's Really Simple: I Don't Fit Their Picture.

You Would Never Expect A Black Woman To Be The Hero.

My Characteristics [of Ideal Black Man.] Aren't As Specific. I'm More General. I'm More Like, I Have To Be Able To Talk To Him. You Know, We Have To Have Good Communications. He Has To Be Interested In The World. You Know What I Mean. Like Interested In Learning And Adventurous And Curious, 'cause That's What I Am. He Has To Be Passionate About Something. And It Would Be Nice If He Had A Job. It's Not Like He Has To Have An Mba.

When You Have A Play, You Have To Be On Every Night.