Theory Can Blind Observation.

The Blind Willingness To Sacrifice People To Truth, However, Has Always Been The Danger Of An Ethics Abstracted From Life.

My Research Suggests That Men And Women May Speak Different Languages That They Assume Are The Same, Using Similar Words To Encode Disparate Experiences Of Self And Social Relationships. Because These Languages Share An Overlapping Moral Vocabulary, They Contain A Propensity For Systematic Mistranslation.

In The Different Voice Of Women Lies The Truth Of An Ethic Of Care, The Tie Between Relationship And Responsibility, And The Origins Of Aggression In The Failure Of Connection.

Women Have Traditionally Deferred To The Judgment Of Men Although Often While Intimating A Sensibility Of Their Own Which Is At Variance With That Judgment.

Trust Grows When Babies And Mothers Establish That They Can Find Each Other Again After The Inevitable Moments Of Losing Touch. It Is Not The Goodness Of The Mother Or The Relationship Per Se That Is The Basis For Trust; It Is The Ability Of Mother And Baby Together To Repair The Breaks In Their Relationship That Builds A Safe House For Love.