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A Family That Knows How To Play Together Has The Tools To Stay Together.

It Is Important For A Father Who Feels Pushed Away [by The Mom] To Say, In Effect, When You Do That, I Feel Unwanted As A Father, Or I Feel My Rough-housing Is Not Bad Parenting; It's My Contribution To Helping Our Child Take Risks. Women Cannot Hear What Men Do Not Say.

Men Are Likely To Be Quite Generous, Especially Financially.

During The Years I Was On The Board Of Directors Of The National Organization For Women In New York City, The Most Resistant Audiences I Ever Faced In The Process Of Doing Corporate Workshops On Equality In The Workplace Were Not Male Executives - They Were The Wives Of Male Executives. As Long As Her Income Came From Her Husband, She Was Not Feeling Generous When Affirmative Action Let Another Woman Have A Head Start Vying For Her Husband's (her) Income.

The Deeper Purpose Of A More Positive Attitude Toward Men Is A Better Life For The Children Who Are Parented By The Men Who Are Their Dads And Stepdads; Less Shame For Our Sons Who Will Become Men; And, For Our Daughters, A Deeper Understanding Of Men's Desire To Please That Leaves Them Feeling Their Willingness To Please Is Not Unrequited But Returned - Allowing Our Daughters To Feel Less Lonely And More Loved. If We Earn More And Love Less, We Pay For A Home In Which We Do Not Live.