Whatever We Try To Control Does Have

If Somebody Rejects You Or Your Choices, You Are Still Real, And You Are Still Worth Every Bit As Much As You Would Be If You Had Not Been Rejected.

We Are More Than Our Problems. Even If Our Problem Is Our Own Behavior, The Problem Is Not Who We Are-it's What We Did. It's Okay To Have Problems. It's Okay To Talk About Problems-at Appropriate Times, And With Safe People. It's Okay To Solve Problems. And We're Okay, Even When We Have, Or Someone We Love Has A Problem. We Don't Have To Forfeit Our Personal Power Or Our Self-esteem. We Have Solved Exactly The Problems We've Needed To Solve To Become Who We Are.

Wants And Needs Are Closely Connected. And All Our Needs, Even The Ones We're Not Completely Aware Of Yet, Will Be Met. Be Grateful That God Knows More About What We Need Than We Do. Sometimes When We Pray, We Get What We Want. Sometimes We Get What We Need. Accept Both Answers-the Yes's And The Something Else's-with Heartfelt Gratitude. Then Look Around And See What Your Lesson And Gift Is.

Seek Healing, A Refilling Of Energy And Spirit, As Soon As You See That You Need It. You Don't Have To Push Yourself To Give, Do, Or Perform When What Your Body, Mind, Soul And Emotions Need Is To Heal.

We Need To Build Downtime Into Our Lives, So That We Can Have Solitude Without Feeling Overcome With Guilt.