You Either Get It Or You Don't.

Reality Check: You Can Never, Ever, Use Weight Loss To Solve Problems That Are Not Related To Your Weight. At Your Goal Weight Or Not, You Still Have To Live With Yourself And Deal With Your Problems. You Will Still Have The Same Husband, The Same Job, The Same Kids, And The Same Life. Losing Weight Is Not A Cure For Life.

Sometimes You Just Got To Give Yourself What You Wish Someone Else Would Give You.

There Has Never Been A Merging Of Two Lives Where Significant Problems Of Daily Living Did Not Occur. One Way Or Another, Your Relationship Is Going To Be Affected. The Only Question Is How. There's A Big Difference Between Knowing And Doing. It's Not What Happens Between Partners That Determines The Outcome Of A Relationship, It's How They Handle What Happens. If All You Deal With In Your Relationship Is Problems, Then You Will Have A Problem Relationship. If You Want Your Pound Of Flesh With Full Acknowledgement That You're Right, Your Future Will Be Dim.

You Either Get It Or You Don't. Become One Of Those Who Get It.

Life's Managed, Not Cured.