You Have To Name It To Claim

There Has Never Been A Merging Of Two Lives Where Significant Problems Of Daily Living Did Not Occur. One Way Or Another, Your Relationship Is Going To Be Affected. The Only Question Is How. There's A Big Difference Between Knowing And Doing. It's Not What Happens Between Partners That Determines The Outcome Of A Relationship, It's How They Handle What Happens. If All You Deal With In Your Relationship Is Problems, Then You Will Have A Problem Relationship. If You Want Your Pound Of Flesh With Full Acknowledgement That You're Right, Your Future Will Be Dim.

You Get What You Ask For In This Life. If You Ask For Nothing, You Get Nothing.

Well, Let Me Tell You, If You're 45, Had Three Children And Are Post-menopausal, You're Not Going To Weigh What You Did The Day You Graduated From High School. Get That Out Of Your Head. That's A Media-driven Ideal That You're Never Going To Healthfully Obtain.

If What You're Doing Isn't Working, Change It.

You Have To Figure Out What That Is, And You Have To Make A Plan To Get To It. And The Plan Has Got To Have A Timeline. You Have To Choose Something That You Can Afford To Do And Then Lock It In And Passionately Do It.