You Know If They Said Kindness Or

I Was Living, Growing Up In A Very Traditional Household And Yet At The Same Time I Was Going To School In The United States Where I Was Taught The Importance Of Personal Preference, So At Home It Was All About Learning Your Duties And Responsibilities Whereas In School It Was All About Well You Get To Decide What You Want You Want To Eat.

I Could Wear Makeup Today, And One Person Would Say It Looks Bland, Another Would Say It Looks Fake, And Another Might Tell Me I Look Really Natural. Everyone Is Convinced Their Opinion Is The Truth, And That's What I Struggle Against.

I Think That Too Ended Up Affecting A Lot Of The Different Research Questions That I Later Asked Was Really Was About Well To What Extent... How Do We Balance Choice As Possibility And Choice As Limitations?

Choosing Is A Creative Process, One Through Which We Construct Our Environment, Our Lives, Ourselves.

You Know, You Take A Little Infant And You Turn On The Music Mobile On Their Crib And You Find That If You Give Them A Music Mobile Which Turns On Automatically Versus A Music Mobile In Which - If By Chance Their Little Legs Or Their Little Hands Accidentally Touches It - Turns On They're So Much More Excited If By Chance It Turns On Because They Touched It, So That Desire For Control Over Their Environment Is... Really Appears From Very Early On And If You Look At Children's First Words, "no, Yes."