Your Suffering Is Never Caused By The

It's Not What Happens In Life That Bothers Us. It's What We're Believing About It That Bothers Us.

It's Not The Problem That Causes Our Suffering; It's Our Thinking About The Problem.

Nothing Terrible Has Ever Happened Except In Our Thinking. Reality Is Always Good, Even In Situations That Seem Like Nightmares. The Story We Tell Is The Only Nightmare That We Have Lived.

If You Question Your Thoughts About When Your Son Is Not Healthy, You Come To See That You're The Only One You're Worried About. It's Like Without Him, You're Not Happy - So It's All About Your Happiness. You Want Him To Live For You - For Your Happiness.

Sometimes The Concept You're Questioning Makes More Sense To Ask Just The Second One And Not The First One.