If We Don't Tell Our Own Stories,

If We Don't Tell Our Own Stories, No One Else Will.

What Is Really Important To Me Is A Sense Of Humour And A Mischief About Life. Life Is Just Too Boring Otherwise.

Marriage Of Attraction Is A Gamble Anyway, So You Might As Well Marry Into A Family That Is Similar To Your Own, And Make That Much Less Of An Adjustment. But The 'love Marriage', As It Is Called, Is Equally Common In India Now. But It Would Be Interesting To Do A Comparison Of What Would Work Better. Marriage Is Hard Work, And It Is A Gamble.

You Know, The Sad Thing Of Post-9/11, Which Was Of Course Horrific, Was That The City In Which I Felt Completely At Home For Two Decades, Suddenly People Like Us - Brown People - Were Looked At As The 'others.'

Post 9/11, So Much Has Changed In New York That It Does Not Give You That Homely Feeling Which It Did Before.